How to Socialize a German Shepherd Puppy?

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Socializing a German Shepherd puppy is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. Done correctly, you raise a confident, stable adult. Done poorly or skipped you risk reactivity, fear, or long-term behavioral issues. Here’s how to do it properly.

When Should You Start Socializing a German Shepherd Puppy?​

Socialization begins the moment your puppy comes home. The critical window is: 8–16 weeks old

During this period, puppies are biologically wired to accept new experiences more easily. But socialization doesn’t stop at 16 weeks. It continues through adolescence especially for German Shepherds, who mature later than many breeds.

What Does “Socialization” Actually Mean?​

It doesn’t mean letting your puppy meet every dog at the park. It means controlled exposure to the world in a way that builds confidence. Your goal is neutrality and stability, not excitement.

Key Experiences Every GSD Puppy Should Have​

Expose your puppy safely and positively to:

People​

  • Different ages (kids, seniors)
  • Different appearances (hats, sunglasses, uniforms)
  • People using wheelchairs, walkers, bikes

Dogs​

  • Calm, balanced adult dogs
  • Different sizes and breeds
  • Structured interactions (not chaotic free-for-all play)

Environments​

  • Busy sidewalks
  • Parks (at a distance at first)
  • Pet-friendly stores
  • Car rides

Sounds​

  • Vacuum
  • Traffic
  • Fireworks recordings
  • Thunder
  • Doorbells

Surfaces​

  • Grass
  • Gravel
  • Sand
  • Hardwood floors
  • Metal grates
  • Elevators and stairs
German Shepherds are sensitive and observant. Exposure builds resilience.

How to Socialize Without Overwhelming Your Puppy​

This is where many owners go wrong. Socialization is not flooding.

If your puppy is:
  • Tucked tail
  • Cowering
  • Refusing food
  • Trying to escape
You’ve gone too far. Back up, create distance and lower intensity. Confidence builds in small wins with short sessions a positive tone and end with success.

Blend Training Into Socialization​

Socialization and training should overlap.

Practice:
  • Sit in new environments
  • Eye contact before greetings
  • Loose leash walking
  • Recall from mild distractions
This teaches your shepherd to look to you for guidance when unsure. That’s where confidence really forms.

Common Socialization Mistakes With German Shepherds​

  • Thinking it means constant dog park visits
  • Forcing interaction when the pup hesitates
  • Stopping at 4–5 months
  • Allowing chaotic over-arousal during greetings
  • Ignoring adolescence regression
Shepherds often go through a “fear period” during adolescence. What felt easy at 12 weeks may feel harder at 7–9 months. That’s normal. Consistency wins.

Working Line vs Show Line Socialization Differences​

Working line shepherds may:
  • Be more environmentally intense
  • Require more structured exposure
  • Need more impulse control work early
Show lines may appear softer initially but still require strong foundations. Neither should skip proper socialization.

Why Socialization Matters So Much for German Shepherds​

German Shepherds are naturally:
  • Protective
  • Alert
  • Environmentally aware
Without proper exposure, that awareness can turn into suspicion or reactivity. With proper exposure, it becomes confidence and stability. That’s the difference.

Final Thoughts​

Socialization isn’t about creating a dog that loves everyone, it’s about raising a dog that can exist calmly in the world.
  • Start early.
  • Go slow.
  • Build positive associations.
  • Keep reinforcing through adolescence.
Your future adult shepherd depends on it.
 
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Malakai out here dropping entire college courses on puppy socialization while I’m just trying to convince my shepherd that the neighbor’s garden gnome isn’t a threat to national security.

I appreciate the breakdown though. I wish I had this when mine was a pup. Instead, I learned the hard way that vacuums are apparently demons and escalators are portals to another dimension.
 
Every dog related sub seems to be full of posts looking for advice on how to handle reactivity. As fans of the German Shepherd Dog we all know how common reactivity is within our breed.

I'm not going to share how to stop reactivity as that's another post altogether. I'm going to share how I personally prevent it from even starting to begin with. This is how I approach it. Other people might do things differently and that's fine. There's more than one way to skin this cat.

This is going to be helpful for people who are considering a new puppy or who already have a new dog and are wondering how to prevent reactivity from becoming a reality.

First, let's describe "reactivity" as it seems to be a catch-all term to describe lots of different types of problems. For the sake of this post I'm talking about what we usually think of when we talk about reactivity, the dog who blows up at the end of a leash - most commonly (but not always) towards other dogs.

What causes reactivity? Typically there's three emotions that the dog is experiencing when they become reactive: frustration, fear, and/or arousal, or any combination of the three.

The next question is, why is the dog feeling these emotions? That's a two part answer: learned behavior/experience and genetic proclivity. I'm not going to get too deep into the woods on these two points but they're important to understand. Briefly, the dog had an experience or a number of experiences that caused this behavior to develop and there's a genetic predisposition for it.

And another thing to touch on is what are known as "fear periods" in dogs. Again, I don't want to get to deep into the woods on this but in summary as pups grow and develop they experience fear periods where seemingly inconsequential interactions or experiences can imprint negatively on the dog. If you're looking for more info on this google will return numerous results.

Why is reactivity such a common problem?

In my opinion it has to do with how the everyday dog owner approaches "socialization." What does the every day dog owner do with their little puppies? They let every single person and every single dog approach and interact with their puppy.

They believe that the positive (positive from the humans POV) interactions will create a dog that isn't fearful or aggressive with strangers or other dogs. The owners have nothing but good intentions but what they don't know is they are planting the seeds for future reactivity.

Why does this create reactivity?

Three reasons: 1) the puppy is actually fearful of the interaction and you are allowing the pups worst fears to come true. The pup learns that you will not protect him/her from being approached by strangers and strange dogs and they have to protect themselves. 2) OR, the interaction is so rewarding and so satisfying for the pup that there's nothing you can offer that will outcompete the self satisfaction the pup intrinsically receives from the interaction. And 3) what was formerly a positive experience for the pup becomes negative due to a poor experience with the stranger. For example: they get bit by the strange dog or some strange kid roughly handles them.

How do we prevent any of this while getting the puppy appropriately socialized?

I like to refer to puppy socialization as "environmental exposure." The second a new puppy comes home to me I take them out everywhere. Even if it's just a car ride to get gas or a gallon of milk. I can't stress this enough, I work my ass off to make sure the new puppy sees as many different environments as possible. I take the pup out every. single. day. Parks, parking lots, in-town, stores, gas stations, coffee shops, etc. This creates confidence and social neutrality in the dog.

What do we do when we're out getting our environmental exposure? We do two things. I put the puppy on a flexi leash and I let them explore but I constantly call them back to me and reward them with food/praise and second, we play. We play with each other alot. We play, play and play some more. This shows the dog that I'm the most rewarding and important thing regardless of what is in the environment.

My goal is to make sure I'm the most rewarding thing to the dog in any environment. Most importantly, I purposely take the pup into distracting environments and towards distractions and practice recalling the pup and/or playing with the pup. I can't stress how important this is.

How do we handle interactions with people and dogs?

There's two schools of thought on this. 1) Let everyone and everything interact with your dog and 2) don't allow your dog to ever interact with other dogs or strange people - ever.

I take a different approach. I will allow very brief interactions that I can control and that I know are going to be beneficial.

Let's talk about people. I don't allow strangers to walk up and touch my puppy or my dog. I stop them in their tracks and tell them NO. This is very important for the pup to see. This way they know you got their back. Second, I don't allow the puppy to just run up and great people. I want them to understand this is unacceptable behavior.

What I will do is this, if someone stops at a distance and asks to pet the puppy, I'll make some small talk with them, (feel them out) give them some instructions on how to pet my puppy and then I will release the puppy to go towards the person. (If the puppy doesn't go towards the person I don't force it) I never let the person come towards the puppy. I will let the interaction go on for no longer then a few seconds. I will call the puppy off the stranger, reward the dog profusely and immediately walk away. I do this very infrequently. Maybe once a week or less if I'm taking the pup out six or seven days a week.

This teaches the dog that strange people are no big deal to concern themselves with either positively or negatively - they just exist like a tree or a rock.

How do I handle dog interactions?

I never ever allow strange dogs to approach my puppy. And I most certainly never take them to dog parks. One negative interaction can lead to a lifetime of behavioral problems for your dog. But what I do, is introduce them to dogs I know really well who are owned by people I know really well. While the puppy is small I treat the interaction just like I do with people. Brief, positive, infrequent and I always make sure the experience ends with ME being the most rewarding part of it. As the pup matures I'll allow more play time with well known and we'll behaved dogs but again, only occasionally.

I make a deal with the puppy from day one. I won't let strange dogs and strange people bother you and you don't act like a jerk on the end of your leash. Once the dog is about 5 months old or so, I teach loose leash walking and I enforce the rules.

Get comfortable with telling people NO you and your dog cannot harass my dog. But also be ready to tell your dog NO you can't just go and run up on people or dogs either.

Enforce this for life. Use your best judgement when you do allow interactions. Keep it brief and make certain you're the most rewarding part of the interaction.

This is how I do it. I do not have reactive dogs. I do not have behavioral problems related to reactivity and I have dogs who trust me, follow me and who are incredibly social, confident and outgoing.

Some people might do things differently. Some people might disagree with what I do. That is OK. This is how I do it and it's been successful for me.

Good luck!
 
@Malakai The Great I really enjoyed how you simplified a very broad topic. This makes it easier for the average puppy reader to get a basic understanding of the importance of socializing. You made really good points and pointed out common misconceptions which are very helpful for all future/current puppy owners or upcoming dog trainers. I really like how you mentioned play recordings of things like fireworks. I think even if it's not the real thing a dramatic noise like that combined with positive reinforcement can be beneficial down the line as well when they come across the realistic version.

@MyDogBitz your take nicely complimented the information mentioned by Malakai. I agree with everything you said. You have to be the most important thing in your dogs life, and you have to protect your dog from unwanted stimuli, especially in fear periods. As you both said, it's not about having your dog meet tons of people, it's about having your dog see and be around lots of different experiences and making those experiences positive and remind the dog you always have it's back.

I really enjoyed reading both of your posts.
 
MyDogBitz said:
Every dog related sub seems to be full of posts looking for advice on how to handle reactivity. As fans of the German Shepherd Dog we all know how common reactivity is within our breed.

I'm not going to share how to stop reactivity as that's another post altogether. I'm going to share how I personally prevent it from even starting to begin with. This is how I approach it. Other people might do things differently and that's fine. There's more than one way to skin this cat.

This is going to be helpful for people who are considering a new puppy or who already have a new dog and are wondering how to prevent reactivity from becoming a reality.

First, let's describe "reactivity" as it seems to be a catch-all term to describe lots of different types of problems. For the sake of this post I'm talking about what we usually think of when we talk about reactivity, the dog who blows up at the end of a leash - most commonly (but not always) towards other dogs.

What causes reactivity? Typically there's three emotions that the dog is experiencing when they become reactive: frustration, fear, and/or arousal, or any combination of the three.

The next question is, why is the dog feeling these emotions? That's a two part answer: learned behavior/experience and genetic proclivity. I'm not going to get too deep into the woods on these two points but they're important to understand. Briefly, the dog had an experience or a number of experiences that caused this behavior to develop and there's a genetic predisposition for it.

And another thing to touch on is what are known as "fear periods" in dogs. Again, I don't want to get to deep into the woods on this but in summary as pups grow and develop they experience fear periods where seemingly inconsequential interactions or experiences can imprint negatively on the dog. If you're looking for more info on this google will return numerous results.

Why is reactivity such a common problem?

In my opinion it has to do with how the everyday dog owner approaches "socialization." What does the every day dog owner do with their little puppies? They let every single person and every single dog approach and interact with their puppy.

They believe that the positive (positive from the humans POV) interactions will create a dog that isn't fearful or aggressive with strangers or other dogs. The owners have nothing but good intentions but what they don't know is they are planting the seeds for future reactivity.

Why does this create reactivity?

Three reasons: 1) the puppy is actually fearful of the interaction and you are allowing the pups worst fears to come true. The pup learns that you will not protect him/her from being approached by strangers and strange dogs and they have to protect themselves. 2) OR, the interaction is so rewarding and so satisfying for the pup that there's nothing you can offer that will outcompete the self satisfaction the pup intrinsically receives from the interaction. And 3) what was formerly a positive experience for the pup becomes negative due to a poor experience with the stranger. For example: they get bit by the strange dog or some strange kid roughly handles them.

How do we prevent any of this while getting the puppy appropriately socialized?

I like to refer to puppy socialization as "environmental exposure." The second a new puppy comes home to me I take them out everywhere. Even if it's just a car ride to get gas or a gallon of milk. I can't stress this enough, I work my ass off to make sure the new puppy sees as many different environments as possible. I take the pup out every. single. day. Parks, parking lots, in-town, stores, gas stations, coffee shops, etc. This creates confidence and social neutrality in the dog.

What do we do when we're out getting our environmental exposure? We do two things. I put the puppy on a flexi leash and I let them explore but I constantly call them back to me and reward them with food/praise and second, we play. We play with each other alot. We play, play and play some more. This shows the dog that I'm the most rewarding and important thing regardless of what is in the environment.

My goal is to make sure I'm the most rewarding thing to the dog in any environment. Most importantly, I purposely take the pup into distracting environments and towards distractions and practice recalling the pup and/or playing with the pup. I can't stress how important this is.

How do we handle interactions with people and dogs?

There's two schools of thought on this. 1) Let everyone and everything interact with your dog and 2) don't allow your dog to ever interact with other dogs or strange people - ever.

I take a different approach. I will allow very brief interactions that I can control and that I know are going to be beneficial.

Let's talk about people. I don't allow strangers to walk up and touch my puppy or my dog. I stop them in their tracks and tell them NO. This is very important for the pup to see. This way they know you got their back. Second, I don't allow the puppy to just run up and great people. I want them to understand this is unacceptable behavior.

What I will do is this, if someone stops at a distance and asks to pet the puppy, I'll make some small talk with them, (feel them out) give them some instructions on how to pet my puppy and then I will release the puppy to go towards the person. (If the puppy doesn't go towards the person I don't force it) I never let the person come towards the puppy. I will let the interaction go on for no longer then a few seconds. I will call the puppy off the stranger, reward the dog profusely and immediately walk away. I do this very infrequently. Maybe once a week or less if I'm taking the pup out six or seven days a week.

This teaches the dog that strange people are no big deal to concern themselves with either positively or negatively - they just exist like a tree or a rock.

How do I handle dog interactions?

I never ever allow strange dogs to approach my puppy. And I most certainly never take them to dog parks. One negative interaction can lead to a lifetime of behavioral problems for your dog. But what I do, is introduce them to dogs I know really well who are owned by people I know really well. While the puppy is small I treat the interaction just like I do with people. Brief, positive, infrequent and I always make sure the experience ends with ME being the most rewarding part of it. As the pup matures I'll allow more play time with well known and we'll behaved dogs but again, only occasionally.

I make a deal with the puppy from day one. I won't let strange dogs and strange people bother you and you don't act like a jerk on the end of your leash. Once the dog is about 5 months old or so, I teach loose leash walking and I enforce the rules.

Get comfortable with telling people NO you and your dog cannot harass my dog. But also be ready to tell your dog NO you can't just go and run up on people or dogs either.

Enforce this for life. Use your best judgement when you do allow interactions. Keep it brief and make certain you're the most rewarding part of the interaction.

This is how I do it. I do not have reactive dogs. I do not have behavioral problems related to reactivity and I have dogs who trust me, follow me and who are incredibly social, confident and outgoing.

Some people might do things differently. Some people might disagree with what I do. That is OK. This is how I do it and it's been successful for me.

Good luck!
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This is a fantastic breakdown that is really well explained. I think you nailed something a lot of new owners miss, which is that “socialization” isn’t about letting your pup be mobbed by every stranger and dog they see. It’s about exposure, building neutrality, and making sure the dog learns that you’ve got their back in every environment.

I’ve taken a similar approach with my shepherds. We did tons of environmental exposure, lots of play and engagement in distracting places, and very selective interactions. What really resonated with me in your post was the idea of showing the pup that you are the most rewarding part of the world. That one shift in perspective makes a huge difference.

I also like how you mentioned fear periods. They sneak up on people, and one bad experience during that time can really stick. Protecting the pup through those stages is one of the best investments an owner can make.

Thanks for sharing this. I think a lot of people here (especially folks just getting started with a puppy) will benefit from it.
 
MyDogBitz said:
Every dog related sub seems to be full of posts looking for advice on how to handle reactivity. As fans of the German Shepherd Dog we all know how common reactivity is within our breed.

I'm not going to share how to stop reactivity as that's another post altogether. I'm going to share how I personally prevent it from even starting to begin with. This is how I approach it. Other people might do things differently and that's fine. There's more than one way to skin this cat.

This is going to be helpful for people who are considering a new puppy or who already have a new dog and are wondering how to prevent reactivity from becoming a reality.

First, let's describe "reactivity" as it seems to be a catch-all term to describe lots of different types of problems. For the sake of this post I'm talking about what we usually think of when we talk about reactivity, the dog who blows up at the end of a leash - most commonly (but not always) towards other dogs.

What causes reactivity? Typically there's three emotions that the dog is experiencing when they become reactive: frustration, fear, and/or arousal, or any combination of the three.

The next question is, why is the dog feeling these emotions? That's a two part answer: learned behavior/experience and genetic proclivity. I'm not going to get too deep into the woods on these two points but they're important to understand. Briefly, the dog had an experience or a number of experiences that caused this behavior to develop and there's a genetic predisposition for it.

And another thing to touch on is what are known as "fear periods" in dogs. Again, I don't want to get to deep into the woods on this but in summary as pups grow and develop they experience fear periods where seemingly inconsequential interactions or experiences can imprint negatively on the dog. If you're looking for more info on this google will return numerous results.

Why is reactivity such a common problem?

In my opinion it has to do with how the everyday dog owner approaches "socialization." What does the every day dog owner do with their little puppies? They let every single person and every single dog approach and interact with their puppy.

They believe that the positive (positive from the humans POV) interactions will create a dog that isn't fearful or aggressive with strangers or other dogs. The owners have nothing but good intentions but what they don't know is they are planting the seeds for future reactivity.

Why does this create reactivity?

Three reasons: 1) the puppy is actually fearful of the interaction and you are allowing the pups worst fears to come true. The pup learns that you will not protect him/her from being approached by strangers and strange dogs and they have to protect themselves. 2) OR, the interaction is so rewarding and so satisfying for the pup that there's nothing you can offer that will outcompete the self satisfaction the pup intrinsically receives from the interaction. And 3) what was formerly a positive experience for the pup becomes negative due to a poor experience with the stranger. For example: they get bit by the strange dog or some strange kid roughly handles them.

How do we prevent any of this while getting the puppy appropriately socialized?

I like to refer to puppy socialization as "environmental exposure." The second a new puppy comes home to me I take them out everywhere. Even if it's just a car ride to get gas or a gallon of milk. I can't stress this enough, I work my ass off to make sure the new puppy sees as many different environments as possible. I take the pup out every. single. day. Parks, parking lots, in-town, stores, gas stations, coffee shops, etc. This creates confidence and social neutrality in the dog.

What do we do when we're out getting our environmental exposure? We do two things. I put the puppy on a flexi leash and I let them explore but I constantly call them back to me and reward them with food/praise and second, we play. We play with each other alot. We play, play and play some more. This shows the dog that I'm the most rewarding and important thing regardless of what is in the environment.

My goal is to make sure I'm the most rewarding thing to the dog in any environment. Most importantly, I purposely take the pup into distracting environments and towards distractions and practice recalling the pup and/or playing with the pup. I can't stress how important this is.

How do we handle interactions with people and dogs?

There's two schools of thought on this. 1) Let everyone and everything interact with your dog and 2) don't allow your dog to ever interact with other dogs or strange people - ever.

I take a different approach. I will allow very brief interactions that I can control and that I know are going to be beneficial.

Let's talk about people. I don't allow strangers to walk up and touch my puppy or my dog. I stop them in their tracks and tell them NO. This is very important for the pup to see. This way they know you got their back. Second, I don't allow the puppy to just run up and great people. I want them to understand this is unacceptable behavior.

What I will do is this, if someone stops at a distance and asks to pet the puppy, I'll make some small talk with them, (feel them out) give them some instructions on how to pet my puppy and then I will release the puppy to go towards the person. (If the puppy doesn't go towards the person I don't force it) I never let the person come towards the puppy. I will let the interaction go on for no longer then a few seconds. I will call the puppy off the stranger, reward the dog profusely and immediately walk away. I do this very infrequently. Maybe once a week or less if I'm taking the pup out six or seven days a week.

This teaches the dog that strange people are no big deal to concern themselves with either positively or negatively - they just exist like a tree or a rock.

How do I handle dog interactions?

I never ever allow strange dogs to approach my puppy. And I most certainly never take them to dog parks. One negative interaction can lead to a lifetime of behavioral problems for your dog. But what I do, is introduce them to dogs I know really well who are owned by people I know really well. While the puppy is small I treat the interaction just like I do with people. Brief, positive, infrequent and I always make sure the experience ends with ME being the most rewarding part of it. As the pup matures I'll allow more play time with well known and we'll behaved dogs but again, only occasionally.

I make a deal with the puppy from day one. I won't let strange dogs and strange people bother you and you don't act like a jerk on the end of your leash. Once the dog is about 5 months old or so, I teach loose leash walking and I enforce the rules.

Get comfortable with telling people NO you and your dog cannot harass my dog. But also be ready to tell your dog NO you can't just go and run up on people or dogs either.

Enforce this for life. Use your best judgement when you do allow interactions. Keep it brief and make certain you're the most rewarding part of the interaction.

This is how I do it. I do not have reactive dogs. I do not have behavioral problems related to reactivity and I have dogs who trust me, follow me and who are incredibly social, confident and outgoing.

Some people might do things differently. Some people might disagree with what I do. That is OK. This is how I do it and it's been successful for me.

Good luck!
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Really solid breakdown. I like how you put it as environmental exposure instead of just socialization. Makes me realize half the mistakes I made were basically teaching my pup that random people and dogs were the main event, while I was just the chauffeur with treats. No wonder he thinks shaking hands with strangers is a full. time job.
 
Mr. Schmucks said:
Really solid breakdown. I like how you put it as environmental exposure instead of just socialization. Makes me realize half the mistakes I made were basically teaching my pup that random people and dogs were the main event, while I was just the chauffeur with treats. No wonder he thinks shaking hands with strangers is a full. time job.
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I always use big city dogs as an example. I'm from Philadelphia. You never see dogs in our center city who are reactive or insane on their leash. Why? Because they grow up around total chaos but they just go on their walks without interacting with all the chaos. Their owners are too busy getting their walks done so they can go to work. The dogs learn it's no big deal.
 
This breakdown makes everything feel so much less overwhelming, thank you! I didn’t realize how important it was to keep reinforcing socialization past puppyhood, I honestly thought it was just an early weeks thing.

When you’re exposing your pup to new sounds like fireworks or traffic, do you just play recordings at home first, or is it better to wait for real life moments? I want to do it right without freaking them out.
 
Kaia Murphy said:
This breakdown makes everything feel so much less overwhelming, thank you! I didn’t realize how important it was to keep reinforcing socialization past puppyhood, I honestly thought it was just an early weeks thing.

When you’re exposing your pup to new sounds like fireworks or traffic, do you just play recordings at home first, or is it better to wait for real life moments? I want to do it right without freaking them out.
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I've experimented with loud recordings and it's just not the same IME. Get your pup out in public places as much as you can and prepare them for loud noises the best you can. I like shopping center parking lots, slamming the lids on big dumpsters, throwing metal bowels on concrete, beeping car horns, doing stuff like this. I had a pup lose his shit over a church bell once. Also, there's a genetic component too. If your dog is genetically predisposed to be sensitive to loud noises, you're only going to be able to do so much.
 
MyDogBitz said:
I've experimented with loud recordings and it's just not the same IME. Get your pup out in public places as much as you can and prepare them for loud noises the best you can. I like shopping center parking lots, slamming the lids on big dumpsters, throwing metal bowels on concrete, beeping car horns, doing stuff like this. I had a pup lose his shit over a church bell once. Also, there's a genetic component too. If your dog is genetically predisposed to be sensitive to loud noises, you're only going to be able to do so much.
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That makes so much sense, thank you! I never would’ve thought of places like shopping centers or even using stuff like dumpster lids and car horns on purpose. It sounds like it’s less about fancy tools and more about real world practice.

I guess it must be pretty rewarding when you see them handle something calmly that used to throw them off.
 
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